How to Identify Life Purpose and Existential Meaning: Practical Self-Diagnosis Exercises
3 exercises to identify your real purpose: map your flow moments, try the "perfect year" test, and notice who you admire and why.
1. Map your flow moments
Look back over recent weeks and note 3 moments where you lost track of time from being fully engaged in something. Look for the common pattern between them — not the activity itself, but what it had in common (creating, helping, solving, teaching) — that points to purpose more than the literal activity does.
2. Try the "perfect year" test
Write out, in detail, what an ideal year would look like if money and others' expectations weren't a constraint. Not to actually execute it literally, but because it clearly reveals what you actually value once you remove practical restrictions from the analysis.
3. Identify who you admire and why
Name 2-3 people (people you know or public figures) you genuinely admire, and write precisely what specific quality you admire in each. Admiration almost always points to a value or capacity you'd like to develop or express more in your own life.
- The common pattern across your flow moments reveals more about your purpose than any single activity.
- Imagining a year with no practical constraints reveals real values, not fantasies to literally execute.
- Admiration for other people usually points to a value of your own you haven't fully expressed yet.
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References and Bibliography
Selection of sources used as conceptual background for this article.
- Frankl, V. E. (1959). Man's search for meaning. Beacon Press.
- Steger, M. F., Frazier, P., Oishi, S., & Kaler, M. (2006). The Meaning in Life Questionnaire. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 53(1), 80-93.
- Ryff, C. D. (1989). Happiness is everything, or is it? Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 57(6), 1069-1081.